snoringspaceferret:

alucards-fine-ass:

cptsdwillgraham:

beebunny:

here’s an idea: notice toxic trends in your behavior and, idk, change them

the fact that people are complaining on this post that they can’t change their behaviors that hurt others because they have x mental illness and We Can’t All Be Neurotypical Karen is absolutely fucking wild. do you realize your arguments have come full circle to being indistinguishable from the most crude, generic “mentally ill people are inherently dangerous and/or abusive” ableist rhetoric? you always have the agency to address the ways in which you are hurting others (or yourself). maybe not instantly. maybe not effortlessly. but it IS within your abilities and it is something you owe to your community and yourself

Then they wonder why they lose friends.

It can be hard to change behaviours without the right help, especially when you don’t see it yourself.
But no pattern of behaviour is locked in for all eternity just because yoy have a mental illness.

Also there’s way to find and get help. It’s hard, not easy. It takes effort, everything does. But in the end it’s worth it, I promise.

It took me a good five years to kick a horrible trait I had. A trait that still swells up time to time. Do it for you, and the people you love. It takes time, all you can do is try, and research.