freckledandspectacled:

This can never be said enough: there is no timeframe for discovering your sexuality.

None.

Some people have know their whole lives; others find out after marrying with children.

If you were a lesbian last week but decided you are bisexual this week: that’s great, now you have a whole other gender to love.

If you’ve been straight your whole life and now you realize that you’re gay: this community is here for you.

If you thought you were bisexual when you were 12, then pansexual when you were 20, and asexual when you were 30: you are still valid.

Labels are only what you make of them and how you utilize them: do what feels right. Cycle through as many as you need until you find one that feels good, and then toss that one as well when you find something even better.

Your past actions and thoughts/feelings have nothing to do with how you identify right now, and there is no right time to know or be sure.

Sexuality is fluid. Your life will be fluid. And regardless of when you discover yourself, or if you’ve changed your mind, or if you still aren’t sure enough to even put a label on it: there is nothing wrong with you. You will do this on your own time. No one else can work this out for you. There is no deadline, only you and what you decide works for you at the moment, whenever you decide.

Even if you never do, that’s okay too.

Fuck labels.

Fuck what anyone else says.

Just be you, whoever that is today.