bizarropurugly:

sebhawkes:

“but being abused made you so kind!” being abused made me terrified of being anything less than perfectly accommodating and pleasing in an effort to protect myself from the violence my abuser reacted with but okay whatever

JUST BRINGING THIS BACK BECAUSE THIS PEOPLE PLEASING BULLSHIT HAS HAUNTED ME MY ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE AND I NEED EVERYONE TO FUCKING UNDERSTAND THIS!!!