destroy the idea that if you open up about yourself you deserve the bullying you get
destroy the idea that you should have to hide who you are in order to not be bullied
destroy the idea of telling someone not to open up if they dont want to get bullied
but also destroy the idea that not opening up=shameful or cowardly
also destroy the idea about lying about who you are because you dont feel comfortable sharing=shameful or cowardly
start letting people open up as they see fit