sunnybaker123:

gothhabiba:

gothhabiba:

gothhabiba:

I hate the way that a lot of gay men talk about women lmfao I really do

like “I don’t do chicks” “I don’t like pussy” ok so why can’t you just say that you’re not into women & go.. why do you have to objectify &, yes, sexualise us, in order to say that you’re not sexually / romantically interested in us……………… it’s almost like you can still view women as sexual objects even if you’re not interested in actually fucking them. just sexual objects that have no use to you

& this (+ gay men trying to pressure women into physical contact they’re not comfortable with, gay men sexually assaulting women / grabbing their breasts etc. but it’s fine & funny bc they’re gay! or gay men being just blatantly textbook misogynistic but haha see above) really just showcases to me how misogyny does not somehow magically arise from uncontrollable desire, like a lot of ppl claim to try to make excuses for straight men.

not quite related but in a similar vein: i once had a gay coworker who thought it was totally fine to walk into and hang out in the women’s changing room because he was gay. it was… uncomfortable. to say the least. like, just because you don’t want to bang us, doesn’t mean we want you in our changing room. some women just aren’t comfortable being undressed around men.