Stop planting shit in your boyfriends bed just to start a fight and falsely accuse him of cheating because you are bored. That’s abusive and pathetic.
Stop trying to be the “crazy girlfriend” because I don’t know why girls think that’s cute because it’s not and we all know you aren’t really crazy and you really ain’t gonna do shit that’s crazy.
Stop freaking out every time he doesn’t text you fast. Get a life outside of your boyfriend. I know this is a crazy thought but here me out. Maybe he’s just busy. Or sleeping. Or in the shower. It doesn’t automatically mean he’s cheating on you.
Stop hitting him because you know he can’t or won’t hit you back. One that’s a pussy move. And two that’s abusive. And I think you slapping and punching up on him he has the right to defend himself. So men fucking body slam a bitch if she hitting you. Fucking RKO like Randy Orton if you have too, because you have a right to defend yourself.
Stop verbally abusing him. Calling him names and degrading him. Especially in public. Do you know how humiliating that is for him. But God forbid he calls you something bad.
Do you know how much it hurts to have your significant other call you names and belittle you, especially in public. If you hurts you women, then what makes you think it don’t hurt men?
Stop guilt tripping them into doing something they don’t want to do by crying and saying “you don’t love me” or “if you love me you’ll do it” Stop with the manipulation tatics. It’s pathetic. Grow up.
Stop forcing him to choose between his friends and you. Let him go hang out with his friends. If he wants to go chill at his friends house, have some beers and play video games then what’s the problem. Go hang out with your friends. Unless you don’t have any then go hang out with your mom. Men need their bros.
Stop getting jealous because he glances in another women’s general direction. And then do that sob story of “I’m not pretty enough” “I’m not skinny enough” God that shit is annoying and pathetic. Obviously he doesnt think that shit if he’s with you doofus.
There is so much more I could write but don’t feel like it. When a man is being abused or in a toxic relationship people laugh. If a guy did these things it’s abuse, but since a women does it, it’s okay and funny. Men get out if you have a girlfriend like this. If no one else will listen to you, I will.
And feel free to add more annoying stuff girls do to their boyfriend that’s abusive and get away with or is just annoying in general that I missed. Especially men since you have to deal with it first hand. I could never be a lesbian and date a girl.
I’m tired of this male abuse is funny and men can’t be abused mentality.
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