chefzygardee:

moucchi:

beating ur child is fucking lazy where did ppl get taught that violence was the answer to disobedience or conflict or Literally Anything except means of defense

discipline is valid but… discipline doesnt end up with your kids running away from you in panic and fear. thats abuse thats you taking your relationship with your child n putting a tear in there mark my words no kid wants to trust an adult thats gonna leave a mark on they ass once they hear they did something wrong

a better form of resolution rather than shortening ur belts lifespan?: talk to ur damn kid????? try and find out why they did what they did, explain why it was wrong and the consequences, hear them out, make a solid plan so they dont do it again. in some cases they deserve a punishment, give a punishment yall can both agree is rather fair. in some cases they might need help, get em the help they need. if ur kid walks away from you not knowing how to jump back from what they did, you didnt ‘teach them’ ANYTHING. yall should be able to teach a lesson without using violence, n thats the end of that.

I’m gonna add that not just “beating your kid” is abuse. As a kid who has horrible anxiety, yelling is just as bad in some cases. My relationship with my parents is fucking obliterated and the only reason I’m even considering coming out to them is out of pure spite. I feel disgusted when they do nice acts for me most of the time because I know that if I accidentally speak too quietly they will snap at me and the whole thing goes downhill from there. I’m also just rambling so I’ll stop here.

no making us minors feel uncomfortable. Okay? Okay.